Dr. Zoe Barnow
Hi, it’s nice to meet you…
For over a decade I’ve been helping adults, teens and couples cultivate a deeper awareness of their patterns of behavior, connect with who they are, and live a fuller and more peaceful life.
As a clinical psychologist with extensive experience using depth-oriented psychotherapy, I show up with a strong, caring, open-hearted presence in our sessions. I not only listen deeply to what you say, but also tune into what you’re feeling. As I get to know you, I share observations and reflections that facilitate a process towards growth and healing.
Underlying my work as a psychotherapist is a deep commitment to interrupting the intergenerational transmission of trauma and oppression. As a depth psychotherapist, I am interested in getting to the root of your problems so we can create long-lasting change. While this does take more time and investment on both our parts, I believe it is an incredibly powerful way to effect sustainable change, rather than aiming for a “quick fix.”
I strongly believe in the healing power of the therapeutic relationship and feel honored to be part of your journey toward healing and vitality. I am bilingual and can work with you in Spanish and English.
my training & experience
Founder of Radical Depths Psychotherapy
Currently enrolled in 9-month training in The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy
Completed 2-year Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy Training Program at San Francisco Center for Psychoanalysis, 2022
Psy.D. from The Wright Institute, 2016
B.A. in Psychology from Western Washington University, 2011
My training involved working in various settings with youth and families including a middle school in East Oakland, the community clinic Alameda Family Services, a juvenile hall for adolescent girls, and I received specialized training in perinatal, early childhood and infant-parent mental health at the UCSF Infant-Parent Program at Zuckerberg San Francisco General Hospital. Additionally, I had the opportunity to complete a one-year fellowship in the high-risk obstetric psychiatric clinic in the Zuckerberg Hospital where I provided psychotherapy to pregnant people who had high-risk pregnancies either because of medical complications or psychiatric issues.
In addition to my training and experience in working with youth and families, I also have a passion for working with the lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer, transgender, and non-binary (LGBTQ+) community. I wrote my dissertation on partnerships involving non-binary gender identity and am both professionally and personally knowledgeable about and connected to the LGBTQ+ community. I am committed to working with and providing care for queer and trans parents and folks who are creating non-traditional families.
telehealth
Since the Covid pandemic, my practice is now completely virtual and I can provide therapy for individuals located anywhere in California. If you are interested in pursuing psychotherapy and would like a free 20-minute phone consultation to see if we are a good fit, please send me an email at dr.zoe.barnow@gmail.com or you can leave me a voicemail by calling (510) 775-1458.
I look forward to hearing from you!
supervision & consultation services
I have supervised Associates (pre-licensed clinicians) for the past 6 years, and serve as a volunteer mentor for clinicians learning to do immigration evaluations for asylum seekers. I also offer professional consultation to licensed clinicians who are needing additional support thinking through complex cases. My consultation is psychoanalytically informed, and I have particular expertise on transgender- and queer-identified cases.
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I specialize in working with queer and gender expansive/transgender adults, adolescents, and couples. You have a unique experience and you deserve to be understood by someone who really gets it.
✨ Sexuality ✨ Gender identity ✨ Trauma and childhood wounds ✨ Identity exploration ✨ Body image ✨ Preparation and planning for parenthood
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I have extensive training and experience in prenatal, pregnancy, postpartum, early childhood, infancy, and attachment. If you’re considering becoming a parent, are pregnant, or already have children, I’m here to help support you through these complex and transformative periods of life. Please don’t suffer alone a moment longer. I’m here to help carry the load with you.
✨ Deciding Whether or Not to Have Children ✨ Postpartum Anxiety & Depression ✨ Preparing for Parenthood ✨ Becoming the Parent you Want to Be
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I am well equipped to help you and your partner(s) navigate the ups and downs of partnership. Love and romantic relationships are some of the most meaningful and intense experiences we have as humans. They also can cause us a lot of pain, confusion, and frustration. When things aren’t running smoothly anymore and you’re having trouble finding your way back to each other, you may need some professional help. I have successfully guided many couples stuck in hurt and anger back to a place of connection and care.
✨ Strengthening communication ✨ Sex and intimacy ✨ LGBTQ+ relationships ✨ Polyamory & Consensual Non-Monogamy ✨ Shifting Problematic Ways of Relating ✨ Strengthening Trust and Communication ✨ Transforming Stagnant Patterns